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Minnesota is a "no-fault" divorce state, and has been since the mid 1970's. Typical issues involved in a divorce include custody, child support, property division and spousal maintenance. While some divorces come to conclusion following a trial, the vast majority of cases resolve outside of the courtroom.

Perhaps you’re seeking a long-distance divorce, because you and your spouse have been separated for years but have never made it official. Or maybe your long-distance marriage is coming to an end—buffeted possibly by the uncertainties of military service or the stresses of life on the road. Consider the following to get a fair outcome, minimize costs and protect yourself and your children:…
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Money troubles stress relationships and no doubt contribute to a significant percentage of break ups. Divorce can take a toll on your career earning potential, extend the time you have until retirement and force you to take a tax hit. Even relatively low-cost divorces can cost thousands of dollars, and you and your former spouse must each adjust to living on a single income. Obviously, the challenges multiply when children are involved. Follow these tips to manage your finances and recover after a divorce in Minnesota:…

Continue Reading Money Management Dos and Don’ts for the Newly Divorced in Minnesota

Transparency—so we’ve been taught—shapes us into more authentic people and prevents us from getting stuck in rigid patterns. By sharing experiences online, we also help others know that they’re not alone. When you’re going through a divorce, this kind of collective therapy isn’t just healthy—it’s downright essential. Right?

Not necessarily. Social media is a double-edged…

Divorce obviously can take a toll on your mental and emotional health. But did you know separation also directly affects you physically? Sleep disturbances during divorce are quite common. In fact, researchers at Rush University Medical Center found a strong correlation between sleep apnea and marriage problems. Whether sleep problems actually cause divorce—maybe snoring drives couples apart?—or just serve as a correlational marker for marital unrest is not known. However, researchers from Michigan State University found that those going through a divorce experience a more rapid decline in their general health than those who stay married. There’s scientific smoke, even if we can’t say what’s causing the fire.
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During divorce, couples split everything they own. No matter how financially stable most people were before divorce, they often walk away with less than half of their assets. Frequently, divorce negatively affects credit. It takes time, but you can make sound financial decisions to repair your situation following a divorce.

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The holidays are a time for family and celebration. If you’re dealing with a strained relationship, and you plan to file for divorce, the season that normally brings cheer only makes things more difficult. If children are involved, things can be even more unbearable. Here are a few tips to help you make it through.  …

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One of the most important aspects of your divorce proceeding will be the division of your property or assets. Generally, property that you and your spouse acquire during the course of a marriage will be considered “marital property,” so it must be divided fairly. For example, if only one person works outside the home, the…

The saying “choose your battles” might apply to any divorce proceeding, but it’s especially pertinent to those involving high net worth. Wealthy couples may need to manage more material assets and property, and divorce often becomes a matter of preserving reputation. Whether you own a profitable business that must be split or oversee sprawling real estate holdings, here are four potential obstacles in your way—and what to do about them:…

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A divorce can be draining emotionally. It’s difficult to keep track of all the steps involved; to fight through the obstacles that appear often out of nowhere; and to balance life, work, your finances, your children, your mental health and your dreams and goals. Listening to smart podcasts can help. Not all divorce-related podcasts are created equal, however. We’ve rounded up three favorites. Plug in your headphones and stream these:…
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After filing for divorce, you might find that news travels quickly through your community. In an ideal world, your friends, family and colleagues would respect your space and avoid pressing you uncomfortably about what happened or gossiping about the separation. Alas, we do not live in an ideal world. It’s helpful psychologically to prepare to encounter invasive, even offensive questioning.  …

Continue Reading Protecting Your Privacy During Divorce: Dos and Don’ts