Collaborative divorce originated in Minnesota in the early 1990's. The process involves divorce litigants agreeing to forego court proceedings and work together to gather information, consult with experts, and bring matters to a conclusion by agreement. The evolution of early neutral evaluation has reduced the number of collaborative divorces.

Are marriage and divorce different for the very rich and very poor? One oft-cited statistic is that 50% of marriages end in divorce, but that doesn’t account for income disparity, nor does it account for the fact that many divorces are from second and third marriages. Still, a look at marriage rates in recent years reveals  that fewer people are getting married overall.

There are many reasons why fewer people seek marriage today, which also means fewer people are getting divorced. Interestingly, when the recession hit in 1998, that economic change sparked an upsurge in divorce. That fact should come as no surprise, since arguing over money is one of the main causes of divorce, among both the rich and the poor.

While arguments over money obviously can lead to marital strife and the break down of communication, the story is not so simple. People don’t just get divorced because they lack resources. Certainly, empty pockets add to the stress of raising a family, and that can lead to poor families splitting as well as to behaviors (such as criminal acts or addiction) that further fray relationships. However, there’s a wrinkle: many poor people simply can’t afford to divorce… or at least they believe they cannot afford to separate.

Another cultural phenomenon may be relevant to our question. Over the last 50 years, women have been joining the workforce in droves. As a result, women have seen their incomes go up. Interestingly, in homes where the woman earns more than her husband, the couple seems to be at higher risk of divorce. Could new gender economics somehow contribute to some divorces?

Celebrity divorces get a lot of media attention, but are celebrities even a good proxy for the “wealthy”? Perhaps the complexities of fame dictate how and why celebrity couples split more so than fortune.

Marriage and divorce are complicated matters. It’s difficult to say which socioeconomic class divorces more often, but we can say married couples are more financially stable and that divorce (in general) leads to wealth reduction. It appears from the data we have that the most financially secure are people who get married and stay married.

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Lawyer Stuart Webb created collaborative divorce right here in Minneapolis in 1990 due to his frustration at the red tape surrounding the end of marriages. He refused to keep going to court on the behalf of divorcing clients, instead helping them work out their differences outside of court. He decided to turn his more difficult and (to him) unrewarding cases over to another attorney who preferred a more traditional and litigious approach.

Other attorneys in the city took notice of Webb’s revolutionary process, and some of them liked the approach so much that they decided to copy his methods. Per Webb’s process, all four individuals involved – both spouses and the two opposing lawyers – signed a contract, agreeing to pursue an amicable resolution and requiring both attorneys to withdraw if the case landed in court. In other words, the process incentivized the attorneys to make the negotiations really work. Thanks to the early success of this collaborative method, news soon spread from Minnesota to other states, as other family law lawyers looked for better ways to negotiate divorces.

When the court system in Medicine Hat, Alberta, took advantage of the collaborative idea, the community’s rate of divorce dropped by a stunning 85 percent, because so many couples decided not to split up thanks to the collective efforts of the collaborative team. The practice gained even more publicity after high profile newspapers and magazines, including Maclean’s, The Toronto Star, The Lawyer’s Weekly, started writing about it.

Advantages of Collaborative Law

In addition to being much less contentious, collaborative generally costs less than traditional divorce. The practice is also continuing to gain acceptance and momentum across the nation and in Canada. Experts who study marriage and divorce data believe this trend will only continue.

Clients should not confuse collaborative divorce with divorce mediation.

Collaborative divorce does not involve a mediator, who acts as a neutral party. None of the parties in collaborative divorce is neutral, although they all work together to negotiate a settlement. Each attorney looks out for the client’s best interests and gives his or her client appropriate legal counsel.

Who Does Collaborative Divorce Help?

What couples benefit most from collaborative divorce? While each situation differs, this method is particularly useful in the following cases:

•    You and your spouse have traditionally struggled to communicate;
•    You have serious concerns about property division;
•    One person in the marriage has controlled the finances;
•    You have children or other dependents;
•    You have concerns about visitation and custody.