How Is Paternity Established in Minnesota?

Paternity must be established in order for the father of a child to seek physical custody, legal custody or parenting time with a child born outside of marriage. In the absence of establishing paternity, a father has no custodial rights, or the ability to exercise parenting time, unless the parties agree otherwise.

Minnesota law provides two ways for a father to establish paternity of a child: (1) a signed Recognition of Parentage; or (2) a court order.

A Recognition of Parentage ("ROP") is signed by the parents of a child, at the hospital, shortly after the child's birth. The execution of a ROP establishes the father-child link, allowing a father to move a court for physical custody, legal custody or parenting time.

In other circumstances, the mother, father or county (if public assistance has been received by mother) may establish paternity through a court proceeding. The father and child will participate in genetic testing to determine paternity. The issues of physical custody, legal custody and parenting time may be addressed in the same court case. A case may be filed in court anytime until the child reaches 18 years of age.

Firm Obtains Generous Grandparenting Time Award

Our attorneys were recently involved in a very contentious family law situation involving a request for grandparenting time. Our firm represented the paternal grandparents of two children, ages 9 and 5. The mother and father of these two boys both contested the request of the grandparents for a court order that would compel grandparent visitation.

Our argument to the court was that the grandparents had “stepped into the shoes” of the father, who was an admitted alcoholic. Despite the fact that the grandparents had spent substantial amounts of time with their grandkids, mom and dad disputed their continued involvement in the lives of the children and wanted all time spent with the grandparents to be supervised.

Our clients were awarded one full weekend a month with the grandkids and additional time to take their grandchildren on vacation. None of the time was required to be supervised. This award was quite substantial, given the fact that most non-custodial parents are typically ordered to receive two weekends per month of parenting time, along with one weekday evening. The court clearly recognized that the stability of the children was critical in this case and that this ongoing relationship served their best interests.

The Concept of No-Fault Divorce

Minnesota is a no-fault divorce state. A divorce will be granted in Minnesota without the necessity of proving that one of the parties is guilty of marital misconduct. In earlier times, a party to a divorce was required to demonstrate that the other spouse was at fault for causing a breakdown in the marriage. Adultory was by far the most common basis, but others included domestic abuse, abandonment and an inability to consumate the marriage.

Today, a party to a divorce in Minnesota must merely demonstrate that there has been an "irretrievable breakdown" in the marital relationship. One spouse must simply acknowledge as much, and the court will grant their request to dissolve the marriage. A relatively low threshold - and a tough pill to swallow for those who feel that there is no "justice" in their case unless the court takes into account marital misconduct.

Potential clients often ask, "Should I fight the divorce?" Yes, if you intend to do so outside of the legal arena through counseling or therapy. Once it is obvious that the marriage cannot be saved, your resistence should be limited to that which is necessary to obtain a favorable court order. Not wanting the divorce can be used as leverage against your spouse if they are anxious to conclude matters. Often, the impatient spouse will buy a quick resolution by making an extremely attractive settlement offer. This strategy should be balanced against overdoing it. If you are fighting the dissolution process out of anger or spite, you are likely to cause significant economic and emotional harm to you, your spouse and your children.